Since 2017, I have been living and working in Fiji. In December last year, I returned home to Tonga for my home vacation, intending to spend time with my elderly parents and siblings. Christmas Day created cherished memories while ensuring my parents felt loved and cared for in the comfort of my youngest brother’s home.
A familiar energy hummed at my youngest brother’s place, a symphony of creaking floorboards and laughter echoing in the air. It was my first Christmas home vacation where all nine siblings, now scattered across the country, except for one of my sisters who was in New Zealand, descended upon our youngest brother’s house. Mum and Dad, their hair a little whiter and their steps a bit slower, were the anchors of this chaotic, loving gathering. We kicked off with a family lunch gathering on Christmas Day.
Before lunch, we surprised my parents, with each of my siblings wearing their family color for pictures together. After taking photos with each family, we sang, danced, and teased one another. My parents laughed until they cried, their joy infectious. My siblings and I worked together the kitchen, preparing our parents’ favorite meals.
The aroma of homemade ‘umu’ from the underground oven, and the roasted pig filled the compound, and we all gathered around the dining table, sharing laughter and stories. My mum lit up as she recounted the funny mishaps from our childhood, and my dad chimed in with his anecdotes, bringing back a wave of nostalgia.
This family holiday was not just a break from routine; it was a beautiful reminder of the importance of family, connection, and the joy of spending time together in peace and harmony.
I realized how much this time meant to all of us. It wasn’t merely about the activities we participated in; it was about the bond we strengthened as a family. My parents felt cherished, and we all departed with our hearts full of love and wonderful memories, eagerly anticipating our next family gathering. The holiday at home brought us closer and reminded us of the simple joys in life. By the time the week ended, we felt rejuvenated, with hearts full of love and laughter.
Thanks to the online apps that keep us connected with family and friends, I can engage with my family no matter where I am on mission. This is one of the best ways to stay in touch with our long-distance family members.
My brief time on home holiday allows me to rest, recharge, and renew my energy and focus. Spending time with my family and friends is emotionally refreshing and supports me in many ways. These connections give me a sense of belonging and encouragement as I prepare to return to my mission, and we make sure to pray for each other no matter where we are.
Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. Proverbs 19:21
Columban lay missionary Naanise Mo’Unga lives and works in Fiji.